Has anyone else noticed this? It seems like lots of girls are always angry, it's like they're always having the worst day in the world and they feel the need to unleash their anger on an AFC. It's weird because I could only name a few angry guys that I know, but at least 90% of the girls that I encounter are always angry. I thought guys were supposed to be the angry ones, not girls. Since when does every girl have to act like a mega super b1tch?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why are LOTS of girls ALWAYS angry?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That's certinally not the case around where i live in... Actually, most of the GUYS I know are major AFC's deep down, who can't even handle their emotions well. They're always anxious or seeking for approval, and sort of uncomfortable with themselves... The girls are usually more relaxed and energetic, and can socialize with people preety well.
Aren't women just naturally more social then guys? And I tought they kind of had it better, since they're SO GOOD at giving mixed signals and etc, manipulating the living hell out of AFC's, making them think they like him but they just don't give a heck. (Do girls even have onitis?)
Aren't women just naturally more social then guys? And I tought they kind of had it better, since they're SO GOOD at giving mixed signals and etc, manipulating the living hell out of AFC's, making them think they like him but they just don't give a heck. (Do girls even have onitis?)
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Have you ever thought about that maybe you are the one who makes them angry? You should stop beating them / stelaing their handbags / etc, whatever you do...lazikia said:but at least 90% of the girls that I encounter are always angry.
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Yes. Yes, they do...and it's a hell of an ugly thing. Ever see Fatal Attraction?Groovy said:And I tought they kind of had it better, since they're SO GOOD at giving mixed signals and etc, manipulating the living hell out of AFC's, making them think they like him but they just don't give a heck. (Do girls even have onitis?)
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It's nature.
And I haven't seen many angry women so far.
And I haven't seen many angry women so far.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
CuriousGirl
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Sometimes the way you perceive people is mislead by your own personality/insecurities/issues. One of my younger sisters is generally a short-tempered moody cow, whereas I'm the opposite, the other day she came moaning to me about how this girl was ignoring her. I pointed out I was sure she wasn't being ignored, the girl was just distracted by other things. Sure enough .......Oh haha, before I even finish this, I can hear my sister saying to mum how I'm our grandma's favourite. Jeez, what a load of bollocks! Major second child syndrome, perhaps. Anyway, sure enough, I was right about the girl. So my point is, OP, have you considered it's just how you are perceiving these women? That they aren't actually as angry or uptight as you think.