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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Why are girls "shy" about sex at first?

TKool

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We all know girls DO love sex and are up to doing a lot of freaky stuff. If you're in a relationship, you probably hit that every which way possible.

So, why is it a turn off when a guy talks about sex on the first date, or make suggestions he wants to have sex with a girl, a girl gets all weirded out like she never had sex before....?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Alle_Gory

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slut defense. in case she's a slut, then its a slut offense and she talks like a truck driver.
 

drak_ool

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TKool said:
So, why is it a turn off when a guy talks about sex on the first date, or make suggestions he wants to have sex with a girl, a girl gets all weirded out like she never had sex before....?
You're getting your facts confused here. It's not that a girl is turned off when you talk about sex. In fact quite the contrary, but it depends on how you approach the subject. When you can have a convo with a girl about sex it really shows her how mature you are and how much experience you have in that department, 2 big turn-ons. It's just a matter of leading the convo towards where you want it to go, starting from a milder angle, like asking her what she thinks about sex in public.

As far as girls getting weirded out when you make suggestions you want to have sex with them... it's normal! Sex is not something you should talk a girl into. It's something a girl will want from you. Every single one of my lays that I can remember has been action-driven.

Of course, when you push the action you will usually encounter some sort of Anti-Slut Defense. Do a little search on this forum and the web and you will find heaps of material on how to overcome these. The freeze out is my favorite tactic, let me know if you can't find anything on it, I ll help you out.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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