"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why are girls "shy" about sex at first?

TKool

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We all know girls DO love sex and are up to doing a lot of freaky stuff. If you're in a relationship, you probably hit that every which way possible.

So, why is it a turn off when a guy talks about sex on the first date, or make suggestions he wants to have sex with a girl, a girl gets all weirded out like she never had sex before....?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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slut defense. in case she's a slut, then its a slut offense and she talks like a truck driver.
 

drak_ool

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TKool said:
So, why is it a turn off when a guy talks about sex on the first date, or make suggestions he wants to have sex with a girl, a girl gets all weirded out like she never had sex before....?
You're getting your facts confused here. It's not that a girl is turned off when you talk about sex. In fact quite the contrary, but it depends on how you approach the subject. When you can have a convo with a girl about sex it really shows her how mature you are and how much experience you have in that department, 2 big turn-ons. It's just a matter of leading the convo towards where you want it to go, starting from a milder angle, like asking her what she thinks about sex in public.

As far as girls getting weirded out when you make suggestions you want to have sex with them... it's normal! Sex is not something you should talk a girl into. It's something a girl will want from you. Every single one of my lays that I can remember has been action-driven.

Of course, when you push the action you will usually encounter some sort of Anti-Slut Defense. Do a little search on this forum and the web and you will find heaps of material on how to overcome these. The freeze out is my favorite tactic, let me know if you can't find anything on it, I ll help you out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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