TKool said:
So, why is it a turn off when a guy talks about sex on the first date, or make suggestions he wants to have sex with a girl, a girl gets all weirded out like she never had sex before....?
You're getting your facts confused here. It's not that a girl is turned off when you talk about sex. In fact quite the contrary, but it depends on how you approach the subject. When you can have a convo with a girl about sex it really shows her how mature you are and how much experience you have in that department, 2 big turn-ons. It's just a matter of leading the convo towards where you want it to go, starting from a milder angle, like asking her what she thinks about sex in public.
As far as girls getting weirded out when you make suggestions you want to have sex with them... it's normal! Sex is not something you should talk a girl into. It's something a girl will want from you. Every single one of my lays that I can remember has been action-driven.
Of course, when you push the action you will usually encounter some sort of Anti-Slut Defense. Do a little search on this forum and the web and you will find heaps of material on how to overcome these. The freeze out is my favorite tactic, let me know if you can't find anything on it, I ll help you out.
