"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why are girls "shy" about sex at first?

TKool

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We all know girls DO love sex and are up to doing a lot of freaky stuff. If you're in a relationship, you probably hit that every which way possible.

So, why is it a turn off when a guy talks about sex on the first date, or make suggestions he wants to have sex with a girl, a girl gets all weirded out like she never had sex before....?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alle_Gory

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slut defense. in case she's a slut, then its a slut offense and she talks like a truck driver.
 

drak_ool

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TKool said:
So, why is it a turn off when a guy talks about sex on the first date, or make suggestions he wants to have sex with a girl, a girl gets all weirded out like she never had sex before....?
You're getting your facts confused here. It's not that a girl is turned off when you talk about sex. In fact quite the contrary, but it depends on how you approach the subject. When you can have a convo with a girl about sex it really shows her how mature you are and how much experience you have in that department, 2 big turn-ons. It's just a matter of leading the convo towards where you want it to go, starting from a milder angle, like asking her what she thinks about sex in public.

As far as girls getting weirded out when you make suggestions you want to have sex with them... it's normal! Sex is not something you should talk a girl into. It's something a girl will want from you. Every single one of my lays that I can remember has been action-driven.

Of course, when you push the action you will usually encounter some sort of Anti-Slut Defense. Do a little search on this forum and the web and you will find heaps of material on how to overcome these. The freeze out is my favorite tactic, let me know if you can't find anything on it, I ll help you out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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