"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why are girls embarrassed of squirting?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girls are embarrassed and self-conscious about everything about them, squirting is one of those things.
 

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In most cases, it's probably because they either are a) self-concious about being judged (for whatever reason) or b) they don't want to be responsible for soiled sheets when the euphoria of sex fades.

Maybe head down to your local mall and conduct a survey? ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cause a lot of guys don't like it.

I love it and have learned how to make virutally any woman squirt in under 10 minutes. And no it's not urine.

It's also like an orgasm times 1000 for a chick too...once you can make a woman squirt, she is a ball of putty in your hands.
 

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Buy her lots of beans burritos, for a laugh.:p
 

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Cause a lot of guys don't like it.

I love it and have learned how to make virutally any woman squirt in under 10 minutes. And no it's not urine.

It's also like an orgasm times 1000 for a chick too...once you can make a woman squirt, she is a ball of putty in your hands.

Write a guide?
 

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The liquid is discharged from the fluid in the bladder, which you could call pee, except it takes a slightly different path when being expelled, and thus does not pick up all of the body waste that normal urine contains. That's why this argument rages on eternally. Is it pee? Yes and no. Both sides are correct.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A plate of mine laughs her brains out while swuirting They love the feeling no embarassement???
 

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Because it's not a subject that is EVER discussed in a sexual or medical capacity so when it happens the first time we think we have actually lost control of our bladders and get embarrassed and hope the guy doesn't think we just peed on him.

Then we leave the situation contemplating WTF did I just pee on him? And we are so confused we don't bring it up with our friends to resolve. I have never talked to my girlfriend's about this and they have never talked to me about it.

Eventually you hear about it second hand, in a magazine, on a website, erotica, and you think "hey, okay, maybe that is a normal thing!?" But you still don't have legitimate confirmation.

It would be different if young women were told "sometimes, when you are very sexually aroused, you may experience a rush of liquid .... Etc, etc, etc". Then, at least, we could associate it with a positive event.... "Oh, wow, he really does it for me"

But nope.

Make sense?
 

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Because most of them think they are going to pee.
 

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Because it's not a subject that is EVER discussed in a sexual or medical capacity so when it happens the first time we think we have actually lost control of our bladders and get embarrassed and hope the guy doesn't think we just peed on him.

Then we leave the situation contemplating WTF did I just pee on him? And we are so confused we don't bring it up with our friends to resolve. I have never talked to my girlfriend's about this and they have never talked to me about it.

Eventually you hear about it second hand, in a magazine, on a website, erotica, and you think "hey, okay, maybe that is a normal thing!?" But you still don't have legitimate confirmation.

It would be different if young women were told "sometimes, when you are very sexually aroused, you may experience a rush of liquid .... Etc, etc, etc". Then, at least, we could associate it with a positive event.... "Oh, wow, he really does it for me"

But nope.

Make sense?
But how important is the squirting in your sex life, or in general for a womans sex life?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've never seen it like in the p*** movies. But then sometimes my sheets have been totally destroyed so I assume something different has happened. My favourite thing is when they have just a small orgasm to let them think that's it game over and then when they are nearly asleep go down on them and work until they are waking the neighbours with their squeals.
 

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I've never seen it like in the p*** movies. But then sometimes my sheets have been totally destroyed so I assume something different has happened. My favourite thing is when they have just a small orgasm to let them think that's it game over and then when they are nearly asleep go down on them and work until they are waking the neighbours with their squeals.
Try this position :

Lay on your back and have them like they are riding you, except get them in a squat position, with their feet flat and then put your hands under their thighs or butt to help support them. Raise them up to a level where you can get a full stroke in and out to where you almost come all the way out but not quite. Hold them at this level and then pump as hard and fast as you can in and out like a piston. If you are in good enough shape and can continue for long enough you will almost always get them to squirt. Keep pounding them through the squirt and it will spray up in the air and go over your head with the spray landing everywhere in between.

They will try and get off you and curl up into almost a fetal position a lot of times and be shaking sometimes from it...don't let them rest, you are about to be the guy they tell stories to their girlfriends about unbelievable orgasms for the rest of their lives...get on top of them, legs up on your shoulders, pillow under the small of their back right above their butt, wrists tight up against their hips holding them in place and proceed to pound them through the bed with long deep strokes are hard as you can and watch out for the devil claw marks and punches you will be getting thrown at you as they scream bloody murder...and keep cvmming in one long continuous orgasm.

On a side note, whatever you want after this you will get...anal...bl0wjobs...cvm on their face...swallowing...you just opened pandora's pleasure box for them
 
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That's a great little project right there. I was kind of dreading doing my core strength work it's been a long tough winter. Thank you I think the fun of that will keep me motivated.
 

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Been with a few squirters that were not embarrassed when it happened, but a 40+ year woman was when she got queefs. Probably due to her personal fear of being too loose or something…
 
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But how important is the squirting in your sex life, or in general for a womans sex life?
Most women I have talked to said it was the most intense orgasm they have ever experienced, like it was 1000 orgasms in one
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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