Basically I got this waitress to like me at this establishment where I hang out. I had a issue with her co worker who we will refer to as A. She will be Kate and the 3rd girl I'll refer to Jane. Jane a is a dumbass. I told her that I offended A and now Kate thinks I was talking about her. Suggestions?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why are girls dumb?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Fly By Night
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Clarify it to Kate..?
youngmack
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This is what you do.....
Take out your penis and put in on Jane's forehead,im telling you it WILL work.....Works everytime
Take out your penis and put in on Jane's forehead,im telling you it WILL work.....Works everytime
Vice
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What I would personally do is what I call "burn it into the ground". So if Kate thinks you were talking about her, instead of explaining myself, I would "roll with it" and continue "talking about her", except in a comedic way.
That's just me though.
That's just me though.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
comic_relief
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how about DROP THE FVCKING DRAMA and move on! Be a man and extricate yourself from the situation until everything calms down!
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