"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why are Foreign Women so Much Better?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I believe "foreign women" being discussed here refer to the pool of women from more conservative countries where the patriarchy has not yet been destroyed, not from other Western countries that share the same liberal values in the states.
 

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Not necessarily. For example I found even Western Europe to be far superior to the US. The Anglosphere is more or less just the same as the US though
Anyway, as a firm believer in "All Women Are The Same", I am positive that in the end, if you as a man don't have enough self-respect, frame, and "game," then sooner or later your woman will FVCK YOU UP big time, no matter if she's "foreign" or not.
 

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Anyway, as a firm believer in "All Women Are The Same", I am positive that in the end, if you as a man don't have enough self-respect, frame, and "game," then sooner or later your woman will FVCK YOU UP big time, no matter if she's "foreign" or not.
So your telling me a Filipina Woman is the same as a woman from Beverly Hills? What sort of mental gymnastics would you need to employ to come to that conclusion?

Do we have tons of Filipino men coming here saying how great Western/American women are for wives?
 

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So your telling me a Filipina Woman is the same as a woman from Beverly Hills? What sort of mental gymnastics would you need to employ to come to that conclusion?

Do we have tons of Filipino men coming here saying how great Western/American women are for wives?
Any person with an average IQ would automatically know that I was merely referring to the majority, aka the central point of the spectrum, not its two extreme sides.

In your example, it would be more suitable and better to compare between one "Fillipina woman" with one average USA woman, not "one from Beverly Hills."

Next time, be stupid some place else, not SS. Please.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Any person with an average IQ would automatically know that I was merely referring to the majority, aka the central point of the spectrum, not its two extreme sides.

In your example, it would be more suitable and better to compare between one "Fillipina woman" with one average USA woman, not "one from Beverly Hills."

Next time, be stupid some place else, not SS. Please.
You specifically said "all women are the same" and now your moving goal posts. You have literally nothing concrete to back up ur so called argument
 

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I was not butthurt, but looks like you are now. Just be nice, no need to make us feel like idiots. We all have some struggles with women, that's why we are here. It's not a competition.
No hard feelings man, I think you are smart enough to understand what I mean.

Cheers
Cheers man. Despite my sh!tty attitude, all I want from being here is contributing to helping my fellow men get better with women and life in general. Sorry if I have been mean sometimes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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As a tall white guy, I've attracted many Arab and Pakistani girls. While touring Ireland, I hit up a few girls from brazil that were there for school and quite a few Irish girls. The girls in Ireland from brazil were great times. The Irish girls afterwards always asked when I was coming back to Ireland and to please consider emigrating. I think as a foreigner in any country that isn't yours you automatically given some level of sex appeal.
 
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I think as a foreigner in any country that isn't yours you automatically given some level of sex appeal.
Very true, many local girls in the US are more receptive if you’re an out of stater also…
ONL’s much easier.
First noticed it in sixth grade. Family moved from Texas to Indiana mid April. Northern girls in class noticed my southern tan and I had six of them fighting over spending time with me.
Being new and different gives many men an edge, use it to your advantage…
 
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As a guy in Europe, my fantasy is banging an American female cop. Dudes in the US are sleeping on those juicy cops
 

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there are many countries. different quirks from each.

for over half a century or more united states has been considered a rich country with a huge middle-class population. women in many countries have been taught that men from the USA are likely wealthy compared to them. it is the same for several other western cultures, and also a few eastern ones such as japan. the perception is usually more than what is true and it causes attraction.

when one has 10+ times the resources of the average man in the area, many women of all ages will at least want to investigate that man. not just as a gold digger, but interest in the guy because of the money not just to get the money.. if that makes sense. it is part of the value presentation of the whole package. it's the same everyplace, not many women staying with a broke-ass lazy guy even if he is very handsome. he certainly will do better than an ugly broke lazy guy. take a guy earning 100 or 300k per month in the US and plenty of women that know about him will want to investigate, that's about 10x the average for some areas.

the wealthy women from other countries are not as interested and in many cases actively avoid the western foreigner. That's fine because they are just as spoiled. the difference is that they are the minority group whereas in the west they are the majority.
 

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there are many countries. different quirks from each.

for over half a century or more united states has been considered a rich country with a huge middle-class population. women in many countries have been taught that men from the USA are likely wealthy compared to them. it is the same for several other western cultures, and also a few eastern ones such as japan. the perception is usually more than what is true and it causes attraction.

when one has 10+ times the resources of the average man in the area, many women of all ages will at least want to investigate that man. not just as a gold digger, but interest in the guy because of the money not just to get the money.. if that makes sense. it is part of the value presentation of the whole package. it's the same everyplace, not many women staying with a broke-ass lazy guy even if he is very handsome. he certainly will do better than an ugly broke lazy guy. take a guy earning 100 or 300k per month in the US and plenty of women that know about him will want to investigate, that's about 10x the average for some areas.

the wealthy women from other countries are not as interested and in many cases actively avoid the western foreigner. That's fine because they are just as spoiled. the difference is that they are the minority group whereas in the west they are the majority.
You say it's about economics and USA, but I'm from Australia. For example i go to a relatively wealthy country like Korea and still get tons of positive attention, I got 40 matchs on tinder there in just a day.

Your points only apply if an american goes to the Philippines or something. But as many have reported here it isn't just poor countries.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You say it's about economics and USA, but I'm from Australia. For example i go to a relatively wealthy country like Korea and still get tons of positive attention, I got 40 matchs on tinder there in just a day.

Your points only apply if an american goes to the Philippines or something. But as many have reported here it isn't just poor countries.
the stereotype is still in place due to history. You're right that it isn't true in some even many of the places but the perception from generation past is still alive. Korea was not wealthy before, 50 or 60 years ago it was different, like the Philippines but worse...

I can remember USA, men, in the old days from navy ships having a great time in Perth. Not sure about that one, as same color and background in history so that one maybe doesn't fit.
 
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