"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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im not racist or anything. But i think black people are very rude and they look like gangsters. And they swear alot.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It depends, the french black people are really friendly, but it seems like a lot of english ones are like that..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FYI, whenever anyone prefaces what they are about to say with something like this,
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im not racist or anything. ....
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what they say afterward typically negates it.
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But i think black people are very rude and they look like gangsters. And they swear alot.
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I do think it's pretty sad that even well-adjusted black guys often feel the need to adopt a stupid gangster persona. They seem to think that if they're not acting like a thug, they are not cool.

very un-DJish, imo
 
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"I'm not trying to be racist or anything but all black people suck."

But good point Obsidian. Its hard though being a black DJ like me, because I guess it seems off for people when you enunciate your words and speak in the tone of a white person.

Plus the whole dynamic of the black guys game is different than the white guys game with women so I'm caught there too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why is it white people always generalize blacks just cuz they may dress in hip hop clothing? AND funketekun not only are you a racist pig but there are rude people out in the world of many different colors epescially whites who don't dress gangster and are very rude.
 
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I didn't mean it that way. I just don't like when black people completely follow the stereotype. I have black friends that are well mannered and don't act that way.
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Understand though that there is a double standard.

"Well-mannered" black guys who speak right (like me) tend to score less with women. :( .

threads gonna get locked anyways.
 
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I didn't mean it that way. I just don't like when black people completely follow the stereotype. I have black friends that are well mannered and don't act that way.
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I can tell your a racist piece of ****.
 
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How would you act if you grew up in an area where all the industry moved out and the only way to survive and put bread on the table is by being a "thug". This goes across races, but the project mentality is what it takes to survive in those kind of places, and the rest of it is the way the thug lifestyle is embraced in pop culture. You would never say those things face to face to the groups you are talking about, so shut the f uck up. BTW I'm caucasian I just think you are a retard. And the thread starter as well. Not all black, white, brown, red, green people act the same.
 
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If you want to talk about blcak people, then go somewhere and talk about just not on the forum because this is about seduction and being a don juan///!

LOCKE THIS!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Inside Man said:
How would you act if you grew up in an area where all the industry moved out and the only way to survive and put bread on the table is by being a "thug". This goes across races, but the project mentality is what it takes to survive in those kind of places, and the rest of it is the way the thug lifestyle is embraced in pop culture. You would never say those things face to face to the groups you are talking about, so shut the f uck up. BTW I'm caucasian I just think you are a retard. And the thread starter as well. Not all black, white, brown, red, green people act the same.
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well said
 
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brett012 said:
No I'm not. I've had a close black friend that acts like what the thread is describing for like 5 years now. Hell I have a fetish for black women.
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that does not mean anything cuz your still a racist pig saying blacks or a group of blacks listening to rap should be shot. what kind of **** is that.
 
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The Inside Man said:
How would you act if you grew up in an area where all the industry moved out and the only way to survive and put bread on the table is by being a "thug". This goes across races, but the project mentality is what it takes to survive in those kind of places, and the rest of it is the way the thug lifestyle is embraced in pop culture. You would never say those things face to face to the groups you are talking about, so shut the f uck up. BTW I'm caucasian I just think you are a retard. And the thread starter as well. Not all black, white, brown, red, green people act the same.
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good point bro
 
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Im not racist or anything. But I think white people are lame and they look like wimps. And they also talk like dorks.


See how stupid you sound now?
 
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What a lame troll thread, and you guys STILL bit?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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