funketekun
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im not racist or anything. But i think black people are very rude and they look like gangsters. And they swear alot.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
what they say afterward typically negates it.funketekun said:im not racist or anything. ....
See...funketekun said:But i think black people are very rude and they look like gangsters. And they swear alot.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Understand though that there is a double standard.brett012 said:I didn't mean it that way. I just don't like when black people completely follow the stereotype. I have black friends that are well mannered and don't act that way.
I can tell your a racist piece of ****.brett012 said:I didn't mean it that way. I just don't like when black people completely follow the stereotype. I have black friends that are well mannered and don't act that way.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
well saidThe Inside Man said:How would you act if you grew up in an area where all the industry moved out and the only way to survive and put bread on the table is by being a "thug". This goes across races, but the project mentality is what it takes to survive in those kind of places, and the rest of it is the way the thug lifestyle is embraced in pop culture. You would never say those things face to face to the groups you are talking about, so shut the f uck up. BTW I'm caucasian I just think you are a retard. And the thread starter as well. Not all black, white, brown, red, green people act the same.
that does not mean anything cuz your still a racist pig saying blacks or a group of blacks listening to rap should be shot. what kind of **** is that.brett012 said:No I'm not. I've had a close black friend that acts like what the thread is describing for like 5 years now. Hell I have a fetish for black women.
good point broThe Inside Man said:How would you act if you grew up in an area where all the industry moved out and the only way to survive and put bread on the table is by being a "thug". This goes across races, but the project mentality is what it takes to survive in those kind of places, and the rest of it is the way the thug lifestyle is embraced in pop culture. You would never say those things face to face to the groups you are talking about, so shut the f uck up. BTW I'm caucasian I just think you are a retard. And the thread starter as well. Not all black, white, brown, red, green people act the same.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.