"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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im not racist or anything. But i think black people are very rude and they look like gangsters. And they swear alot.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It depends, the french black people are really friendly, but it seems like a lot of english ones are like that..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FYI, whenever anyone prefaces what they are about to say with something like this,
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im not racist or anything. ....
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what they say afterward typically negates it.
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But i think black people are very rude and they look like gangsters. And they swear alot.
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I do think it's pretty sad that even well-adjusted black guys often feel the need to adopt a stupid gangster persona. They seem to think that if they're not acting like a thug, they are not cool.

very un-DJish, imo
 
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"I'm not trying to be racist or anything but all black people suck."

But good point Obsidian. Its hard though being a black DJ like me, because I guess it seems off for people when you enunciate your words and speak in the tone of a white person.

Plus the whole dynamic of the black guys game is different than the white guys game with women so I'm caught there too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why is it white people always generalize blacks just cuz they may dress in hip hop clothing? AND funketekun not only are you a racist pig but there are rude people out in the world of many different colors epescially whites who don't dress gangster and are very rude.
 
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brett012 said:
I didn't mean it that way. I just don't like when black people completely follow the stereotype. I have black friends that are well mannered and don't act that way.
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Understand though that there is a double standard.

"Well-mannered" black guys who speak right (like me) tend to score less with women. :( .

threads gonna get locked anyways.
 
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brett012 said:
I didn't mean it that way. I just don't like when black people completely follow the stereotype. I have black friends that are well mannered and don't act that way.
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I can tell your a racist piece of ****.
 
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How would you act if you grew up in an area where all the industry moved out and the only way to survive and put bread on the table is by being a "thug". This goes across races, but the project mentality is what it takes to survive in those kind of places, and the rest of it is the way the thug lifestyle is embraced in pop culture. You would never say those things face to face to the groups you are talking about, so shut the f uck up. BTW I'm caucasian I just think you are a retard. And the thread starter as well. Not all black, white, brown, red, green people act the same.
 
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If you want to talk about blcak people, then go somewhere and talk about just not on the forum because this is about seduction and being a don juan///!

LOCKE THIS!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Inside Man said:
How would you act if you grew up in an area where all the industry moved out and the only way to survive and put bread on the table is by being a "thug". This goes across races, but the project mentality is what it takes to survive in those kind of places, and the rest of it is the way the thug lifestyle is embraced in pop culture. You would never say those things face to face to the groups you are talking about, so shut the f uck up. BTW I'm caucasian I just think you are a retard. And the thread starter as well. Not all black, white, brown, red, green people act the same.
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well said
 
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brett012 said:
No I'm not. I've had a close black friend that acts like what the thread is describing for like 5 years now. Hell I have a fetish for black women.
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that does not mean anything cuz your still a racist pig saying blacks or a group of blacks listening to rap should be shot. what kind of **** is that.
 
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The Inside Man said:
How would you act if you grew up in an area where all the industry moved out and the only way to survive and put bread on the table is by being a "thug". This goes across races, but the project mentality is what it takes to survive in those kind of places, and the rest of it is the way the thug lifestyle is embraced in pop culture. You would never say those things face to face to the groups you are talking about, so shut the f uck up. BTW I'm caucasian I just think you are a retard. And the thread starter as well. Not all black, white, brown, red, green people act the same.
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good point bro
 
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Im not racist or anything. But I think white people are lame and they look like wimps. And they also talk like dorks.


See how stupid you sound now?
 
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What a lame troll thread, and you guys STILL bit?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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