nycdoctor
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I am just curious..why avatars are not allowed
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
WHY ARE avatars NOT ALLOWED
- Thread starter nycdoctor
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Giovanni Casanova
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Suggestions and Feedback.
Metaphysikal_Lover
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Too childish, that's why.
McKindley
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what's an avatar? I've heard that word before and I still have no clue.
Vercingetorix777
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An avatar is the human vessel for a God. What an avatar means around here I've got no clue.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Giovanni Casanova
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It's a picture that goes next to your name that "personalizes" you on a forum. We don't need em.
Dukester
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people dont need to be distinguished by a picture. we already have the "DJ status" under our names (DJ, Senior, or Master).
Besides, why do we all need pictures n e way. People around here are known for how good their info is, and how legit it is.
Besides, why do we all need pictures n e way. People around here are known for how good their info is, and how legit it is.
McKindley
Senior Don Juan
I think the best argument against avatars is that they are useless and gay. And if this is really a big deal to you, you probably spend too much time on the internet anyway.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
squirrels
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One word: BANDWIDTH
Giovanni Casanova
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I thought it was because we didn't like posters on this site.
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?
Yeah gio shhhhOriginally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I thought it was because we didn't like posters on this site.
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?