nycdoctor
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I am just curious..why avatars are not allowed
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
WHY ARE avatars NOT ALLOWED
- Thread starter nycdoctor
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Giovanni Casanova
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Suggestions and Feedback.
Metaphysikal_Lover
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Too childish, that's why.
McKindley
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what's an avatar? I've heard that word before and I still have no clue.
Vercingetorix777
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An avatar is the human vessel for a God. What an avatar means around here I've got no clue.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Giovanni Casanova
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It's a picture that goes next to your name that "personalizes" you on a forum. We don't need em.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
people dont need to be distinguished by a picture. we already have the "DJ status" under our names (DJ, Senior, or Master).
Besides, why do we all need pictures n e way. People around here are known for how good their info is, and how legit it is.
Besides, why do we all need pictures n e way. People around here are known for how good their info is, and how legit it is.
McKindley
Senior Don Juan
I think the best argument against avatars is that they are useless and gay. And if this is really a big deal to you, you probably spend too much time on the internet anyway.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
squirrels
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One word: BANDWIDTH
Giovanni Casanova
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I thought it was because we didn't like posters on this site.
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?
Yeah gio shhhhOriginally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I thought it was because we didn't like posters on this site.
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?