nycdoctor
Don Juan
I am just curious..why avatars are not allowed
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WHY ARE avatars NOT ALLOWED
- Thread starter nycdoctor
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
- Messages
- 5,550
- Reaction score
- 18
- Age
- 47
- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
Suggestions and Feedback.
Metaphysikal_Lover
Banned
- Joined
- Oct 15, 2004
- Messages
- 143
- Reaction score
- 1
- Age
- 67
Too childish, that's why.
McKindley
Senior Don Juan
what's an avatar? I've heard that word before and I still have no clue.
Vercingetorix777
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 26, 2004
- Messages
- 29
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 42
An avatar is the human vessel for a God. What an avatar means around here I've got no clue.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
- Messages
- 5,550
- Reaction score
- 18
- Age
- 47
- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
It's a picture that goes next to your name that "personalizes" you on a forum. We don't need em.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
people dont need to be distinguished by a picture. we already have the "DJ status" under our names (DJ, Senior, or Master).
Besides, why do we all need pictures n e way. People around here are known for how good their info is, and how legit it is.
Besides, why do we all need pictures n e way. People around here are known for how good their info is, and how legit it is.
McKindley
Senior Don Juan
I think the best argument against avatars is that they are useless and gay. And if this is really a big deal to you, you probably spend too much time on the internet anyway.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
squirrels
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 15, 2003
- Messages
- 6,620
- Reaction score
- 186
- Age
- 47
One word: BANDWIDTH
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
- Messages
- 5,550
- Reaction score
- 18
- Age
- 47
- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
I thought it was because we didn't like posters on this site.
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?
Yeah gio shhhhOriginally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I thought it was because we didn't like posters on this site.
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?