nycdoctor
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I am just curious..why avatars are not allowed
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
WHY ARE avatars NOT ALLOWED
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Giovanni Casanova
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Metaphysikal_Lover
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Too childish, that's why.
McKindley
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what's an avatar? I've heard that word before and I still have no clue.
Vercingetorix777
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An avatar is the human vessel for a God. What an avatar means around here I've got no clue.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Giovanni Casanova
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It's a picture that goes next to your name that "personalizes" you on a forum. We don't need em.
Dukester
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people dont need to be distinguished by a picture. we already have the "DJ status" under our names (DJ, Senior, or Master).
Besides, why do we all need pictures n e way. People around here are known for how good their info is, and how legit it is.
Besides, why do we all need pictures n e way. People around here are known for how good their info is, and how legit it is.
McKindley
Senior Don Juan
I think the best argument against avatars is that they are useless and gay. And if this is really a big deal to you, you probably spend too much time on the internet anyway.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
squirrels
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One word: BANDWIDTH
Giovanni Casanova
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I thought it was because we didn't like posters on this site.
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?
Yeah gio shhhhOriginally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I thought it was because we didn't like posters on this site.
Oops, was that a deep dark moderator secret?