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Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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Isn't she a stripper?bigneil said:Let me provide my current relationship as an example of applying this method succesfully:
1) She walked up to me at her club and said "Do you want to hang out?"
I had two choices: accept her offer, or walk. I accepted.
2) She gave me her phone number.
I had two choices: text her or walk. I texted her.
3) She later texted "You're not going to come see me again?".
I had two choices: accept her offer or walk. I accepted.
4) (3 months and 7 dates later) I wrote to her on Valentines Day to confirm out plans made 5 days earlier.
She had two choices: accept or I walk. She accepted.
5) Yesterday she kissed me goodbye as she left. I have two choices: see her again or walk.
You see, she's doing the chasing. I'm leaning away, she's leaning forward. I must keep it that way. It will never get to the point where I'm stalking her.
NOW, my heart sings when I am next to her, but I minimize talking about it with her. I let her talk about feelings while I focus on physically satisfying her, and spoiling her when we're together.
True, its something thats alomost impossible to fake over time becausezekko said:I don't really see this as a tactic, it's just something that should be.
Yes. I figure it's all the more of a testament to this strategy. Talk about a woman who has options.AlexDP said:Isn't she a stripper?
I can only confirm this 100%. Every single time I've gotten invested more than she is, it ends, and it ends QUICKLY.Jariel said:I wish I could dispute this, but it has always rung true for me. I've had girls who start out obsessed with me, things are going great and I can't do anything wrong, but then as soon as I start to develop feelings for them I'm suddenly shot down and rejected.
When I think of my past long term relationships, they always cared more about me than I did about them.
Maybe it is possible to simulate low interest and doing so has always been a big part of the seduction game, but like st-99 said, it's hard to fake it for the long term.
Yes, completely true.BYOB said:would you say theres truth to this?
and if so how do you demonstrate this in a relationship?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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