"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whoa... i like it like that.

Oxide

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Ok. Here is the deal. Im not here to waist your time. Okay, i certanly hope you are not here to waste mine, so im gonna keep this short. Get stylish clothes, get your face/body in good condition.. get some dance moves..get the BASIC IDEAS of how to be around women. I didnt say attitudes. You need just the basic stuff.. like "Dont be afriad to do something nobody else has the balls to do" .... for when you get your sh1t toghether...

YOU WILL HAVE GIRLS APPROACH YOU. YOU WILL HAVE GIRLS GIVE YOU EVERY GREEN LIGHT POSSIBLE. YOU WILL HAVE GIRLS TRY TO SEDUCE YOU.


You think i'm joking? I'm not joking. I had turned down down over 5 women who wanted to have sex with me in the past 3 weeks.

The reason? Simple. I want to date and fukk beautiful women. Anything under "good looking to OXIDE" doesnt cut it. Im not an egoist. I have had good sex in my life..and one thing i learned is that "Pu$$y is pu$$y" doesnt apply to me anymore.

One thing. Even if you are doing all this, if you desire women YOU WANT, it is still your turn to make the move.

I do not guarantee every girl to be cute who wants to fukk your brains out. I just state that it happens... quite often.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DeathDealer

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this advice is solid and gold. after reading the dj bible, articles, and stuff this post beats them all. YOU ARE GOD..
 

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Did you just watch boiler room or something? Glad to hear things are going good for you.

Mr. Mystery
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
Did you just watch boiler room or something?
rofl.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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