"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who would you rather be?

BongDuy

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Person 1:
Laid back
Chilled
Somewhat quiet, but talks sometimes to comment on other people's convo
Somewhat reserved when it comes to doing crazy stuff ( like running around the hood naked?)

Person 2:
Somewhat outgoing
loud
talkative
funny at times, but can also be thought of as someone who tries too hard
perverted
down for almost anything crazy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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horaholic

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person 2 probably nails more chicks, and has more fun.
 

Furyguy

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A better place, a better time.
2.

That said, I know a 2 who fits your description perfectly. He is an annoying ****ing pain in the ass geeky nerd who constantly makes stupid jokes and says filthy **** to girls all the time, including sisters and girlfriends of the dudes he rolls with. Obviously never gets laid aside from the occasional fatty.

I know other 2's that are the drunk jock Stifler types, and those guys naturally are rolling in it.

Presentation is everything, eh?
 

women haze

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A Mix between 1 and 2

usually it can happen.

If I had my choice i'd be a 2 but then I would be just hating myself.:rolleyes:
 

manhattanguy35

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I think of myself like 1. I know people like that who just have enough carriage and inner game that whenever they talk everyone listens. But that's not something I can do. I don't know if that sort of thing is even learnable.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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