"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who would you rather be?

BongDuy

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Person 1:
Laid back
Chilled
Somewhat quiet, but talks sometimes to comment on other people's convo
Somewhat reserved when it comes to doing crazy stuff ( like running around the hood naked?)

Person 2:
Somewhat outgoing
loud
talkative
funny at times, but can also be thought of as someone who tries too hard
perverted
down for almost anything crazy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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horaholic

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person 2 probably nails more chicks, and has more fun.
 

Furyguy

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A better place, a better time.
2.

That said, I know a 2 who fits your description perfectly. He is an annoying ****ing pain in the ass geeky nerd who constantly makes stupid jokes and says filthy **** to girls all the time, including sisters and girlfriends of the dudes he rolls with. Obviously never gets laid aside from the occasional fatty.

I know other 2's that are the drunk jock Stifler types, and those guys naturally are rolling in it.

Presentation is everything, eh?
 

women haze

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A Mix between 1 and 2

usually it can happen.

If I had my choice i'd be a 2 but then I would be just hating myself.:rolleyes:
 

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I think of myself like 1. I know people like that who just have enough carriage and inner game that whenever they talk everyone listens. But that's not something I can do. I don't know if that sort of thing is even learnable.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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