"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who would you rather be?

BongDuy

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Person 1:
Laid back
Chilled
Somewhat quiet, but talks sometimes to comment on other people's convo
Somewhat reserved when it comes to doing crazy stuff ( like running around the hood naked?)

Person 2:
Somewhat outgoing
loud
talkative
funny at times, but can also be thought of as someone who tries too hard
perverted
down for almost anything crazy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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horaholic

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person 2 probably nails more chicks, and has more fun.
 

Furyguy

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2.

That said, I know a 2 who fits your description perfectly. He is an annoying ****ing pain in the ass geeky nerd who constantly makes stupid jokes and says filthy **** to girls all the time, including sisters and girlfriends of the dudes he rolls with. Obviously never gets laid aside from the occasional fatty.

I know other 2's that are the drunk jock Stifler types, and those guys naturally are rolling in it.

Presentation is everything, eh?
 

women haze

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A Mix between 1 and 2

usually it can happen.

If I had my choice i'd be a 2 but then I would be just hating myself.:rolleyes:
 

manhattanguy35

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I think of myself like 1. I know people like that who just have enough carriage and inner game that whenever they talk everyone listens. But that's not something I can do. I don't know if that sort of thing is even learnable.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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