"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Who Will Join Me - DJ Tour 2006
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Just a pointer - you won't be able to get into bars if your under 21.
spider_007
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diablo
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Diablo is moving this to the Wingman Forum...
By the way, how is it that you're able to afford an extensive tour of all 50 states in the USA at the age of 19?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spider_007
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Whoa! Ultimately, it's your decision. If you know you won't feel regretful after this then that's A +. Maybe you can do something more constructive??? You don't really need to go far, traveling throughout the northereastern states I can tell you that the only thing that's REALLY DIFFERENT are the attitudes, manners, and style... ultimately the only common denominator is yourself and no matter what attitudes, manners, and style women in different states have, they all share the same thing in that they'll know if she wants to get laid with you or not. Come to South Beach... Women from all over the world gather here... you get to nail your goal all in one shot!
and then we can wing