Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Some provinces its 18 like here in albertaOriginally posted by spider_007
or you can come to CANADA it's 19 here. I'll never understand that in U.S., you can join the army and get your self killed, but you can't drink???
Whoa! Ultimately, it's your decision. If you know you won't feel regretful after this then that's A +. Maybe you can do something more constructive??? You don't really need to go far, traveling throughout the northereastern states I can tell you that the only thing that's REALLY DIFFERENT are the attitudes, manners, and style... ultimately the only common denominator is yourself and no matter what attitudes, manners, and style women in different states have, they all share the same thing in that they'll know if she wants to get laid with you or not. Come to South Beach... Women from all over the world gather here... you get to nail your goal all in one shot!Originally posted by The_Shezzler
I happen to have saved money from my job - where i have been working extensively for the past two years after leaving college