"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Who Will Join Me - DJ Tour 2006
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Just a pointer - you won't be able to get into bars if your under 21.
spider_007
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diablo
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Diablo is moving this to the Wingman Forum...
By the way, how is it that you're able to afford an extensive tour of all 50 states in the USA at the age of 19?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
spider_007
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Whoa! Ultimately, it's your decision. If you know you won't feel regretful after this then that's A +. Maybe you can do something more constructive??? You don't really need to go far, traveling throughout the northereastern states I can tell you that the only thing that's REALLY DIFFERENT are the attitudes, manners, and style... ultimately the only common denominator is yourself and no matter what attitudes, manners, and style women in different states have, they all share the same thing in that they'll know if she wants to get laid with you or not. Come to South Beach... Women from all over the world gather here... you get to nail your goal all in one shot!
and then we can wing