Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I dont want to get girls with my money. I want to be able to be a charming person all around in life and be able to hold conversations without feeling out of place. Please dont be a jerk.Hurrican said:you must be a real loser if you can't get no girls with the amount of cash you imagined having.
How antithetical to what is taught hereHurrican said:you must be a real loser if you can't get no girls with the amount of cash you imagined having.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The same thing professional sports, films, and music do: provide entertainment.DrMetallica said:What does gambling do for the economy? What does this produce?
They're like condoms. Its fun, but it doesn't produce anything.DrMetallica said:What does gambling do for the economy? What does this produce?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hey self, hit me up on PM. I would be happy to help you out with hand histories. Thanks for the help man.SELF-MASTERY said:Paper I would suggest that you read the forum and hit the streets, malls, bookstores and just learn by fire. I think lifeforce is conducting an online bootcamp that focuses on improving your body join that. Looking good is ALMOST more important than having game....
Also hook me up with some of your hand histories.
It is immoral to let a fool keep his money.Bible_Belt said:And you never know who's on the other end of those bets. Gambling addictions make people lose their family fortunes. If you could sit face-to-face with some of the poor slobs that you are fleecing, you might not feel so grand about your occupation.