You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I dont want to get girls with my money. I want to be able to be a charming person all around in life and be able to hold conversations without feeling out of place. Please dont be a jerk.Hurrican said:you must be a real loser if you can't get no girls with the amount of cash you imagined having.
How antithetical to what is taught hereHurrican said:you must be a real loser if you can't get no girls with the amount of cash you imagined having.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The same thing professional sports, films, and music do: provide entertainment.DrMetallica said:What does gambling do for the economy? What does this produce?
They're like condoms. Its fun, but it doesn't produce anything.DrMetallica said:What does gambling do for the economy? What does this produce?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hey self, hit me up on PM. I would be happy to help you out with hand histories. Thanks for the help man.SELF-MASTERY said:Paper I would suggest that you read the forum and hit the streets, malls, bookstores and just learn by fire. I think lifeforce is conducting an online bootcamp that focuses on improving your body join that. Looking good is ALMOST more important than having game....
Also hook me up with some of your hand histories.
It is immoral to let a fool keep his money.Bible_Belt said:And you never know who's on the other end of those bets. Gambling addictions make people lose their family fortunes. If you could sit face-to-face with some of the poor slobs that you are fleecing, you might not feel so grand about your occupation.