Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I dont want to get girls with my money. I want to be able to be a charming person all around in life and be able to hold conversations without feeling out of place. Please dont be a jerk.Hurrican said:you must be a real loser if you can't get no girls with the amount of cash you imagined having.
How antithetical to what is taught hereHurrican said:you must be a real loser if you can't get no girls with the amount of cash you imagined having.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The same thing professional sports, films, and music do: provide entertainment.DrMetallica said:What does gambling do for the economy? What does this produce?
They're like condoms. Its fun, but it doesn't produce anything.DrMetallica said:What does gambling do for the economy? What does this produce?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Hey self, hit me up on PM. I would be happy to help you out with hand histories. Thanks for the help man.SELF-MASTERY said:Paper I would suggest that you read the forum and hit the streets, malls, bookstores and just learn by fire. I think lifeforce is conducting an online bootcamp that focuses on improving your body join that. Looking good is ALMOST more important than having game....
Also hook me up with some of your hand histories.
It is immoral to let a fool keep his money.Bible_Belt said:And you never know who's on the other end of those bets. Gambling addictions make people lose their family fortunes. If you could sit face-to-face with some of the poor slobs that you are fleecing, you might not feel so grand about your occupation.