"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who to hang out with (successful people)

escaleraroyal

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I have been thinking about the people I hang out with recently. I don't have many friends because I'm not from this city. But I have my fair share of success because I worked really hard for it. I usually hang out with 3 guys who don't have the success that I have. I have a few questions about who to hang out with:

1) If you are successful (Good job/Car/Houses/Girlfriend) and the 3 people you hang out with the most are poor, no gfs, no jobs, no cars nor houses, will you still hang out with them? I'm afraid they can affect my performance and turn me into one of them.
2) If you are successful and want to find out and hang out with people who are as successful as you are then where do you find them?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julian

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Birds of a feather flock together. I steady stay solo on my own eagle type sht because my friends are all crows for the most part. It sucks in a way but they are my bros of 20 years so i dont abandon them just try to help bring them up.
 
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