"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Who thinks short hair makes a girl less attractive?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BeDJ
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If not, why does it matter?
This type of sh!t makes the general discussion repulsive. Who the FVCK cares?
I'll be doing a thread tomorrow for the newcommers on this site, I am absolutely sick of these threads asking for advice, EVEN THOUGH PEOPLE WITH FVCKING D!CKS HAVEN'T ASKED FOR A DATE.
What more experience members SHOULD do is post the link to the DJ Bible and LEAVE it AS IS. No response, no replies. Just post it. No need to further analyze the situation because 90% of people will already have agreed with you.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
But to quote Maya Angelou... "A woman's hair is her glory".
So that glory better be long and ready to be pulled.
It needs to be longer than shoulder length for me.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I'm on a certain online dating site (composed entirely of crazies, of course) and lots of women with the most disgusting short hair contact me. As soon as I see short hair I lose interest.
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Plus, perfume gets trapped in there and when they are close to you or walk by the smell just makes you pounce em. Nice!
Peaks&Valleys
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Most lezzo's are.Zarky said:
I think short hair can look cute, sexy, and hot on the right girl. And I think it can look odd on a different girl. Kinda like me and my dreads. Though I know plenty of girls who will say they like a guy with shorter hair, my hair being almost chin length has down nothing but help get me more attention from women.
Hair length and whether its masculine or feminine depends on the culture. And if you think about it, even in nature there are different animals where the male is the one sporting bigger and/or better looking hair or feathers.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Peaks&Valleys
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Not bad. She has a different look all around, that's probably why it works for her.Social_Leper said: