"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who thinks short hair makes a girl less attractive?

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HB8 with long hair but when she cuts it short she falls to a 6.

Who thinks short hair makes girls not as attractive ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I do. Short hair is a turn off for me even if her face is pretty.
 
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Is she attractive? Are you banging her?
If not, why does it matter?

This type of sh!t makes the general discussion repulsive. Who the FVCK cares?

I'll be doing a thread tomorrow for the newcommers on this site, I am absolutely sick of these threads asking for advice, EVEN THOUGH PEOPLE WITH FVCKING D!CKS HAVEN'T ASKED FOR A DATE.

What more experience members SHOULD do is post the link to the DJ Bible and LEAVE it AS IS. No response, no replies. Just post it. No need to further analyze the situation because 90% of people will already have agreed with you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BeginningDJ said:
Is she attractive? Are you banging her?
If not, why does it matter?

This type of sh!t makes the general discussion repulsive. Who the FVCK cares?

I'll be doing a thread tomorrow for the newcommers on this site, I am absolutely sick of these threads asking for advice, EVEN THOUGH PEOPLE WITH FVCKING D!CKS HAVEN'T ASKED FOR A DATE.

What more experience members SHOULD do is post the link to the DJ Bible and LEAVE it AS IS. No response, no replies. Just post it. No need to further analyze the situation because 90% of people will already have agreed with you.
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Please post this already. I'm dead excited. Can't wait for this man. Hurry up. And I'm not sarcarsming.
 
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Very few women can pull it off. And then again, it depends HOW short.

But to quote Maya Angelou... "A woman's hair is her glory".
So that glory better be long and ready to be pulled.

It needs to be longer than shoulder length for me.
 
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Total turn-off for me. I see it as turning her back on her femininity. Often it has to do with the fact that it's easier to take care of. Every once in a while I'll come across one who looks good with short hair, but I can't get past the statement it makes.

I'm on a certain online dating site (composed entirely of crazies, of course) and lots of women with the most disgusting short hair contact me. As soon as I see short hair I lose interest.
 
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It takes a certain girl to be able to pull off the short hairstyle.

When they can't, they look like they enjoy licking the fish taco every night.

When they CAN, they are fvcking GORGEOUS.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah girls that can pull off short hair are a rarity. Even the ones that do I'd probably still prefer them with long hair.
 
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Total turn off, does nothing for me. Hair is an extension of their femininity, sexiness and health. And I mean nice, shiny, well taken care of hair, not like a frizzy ass Barbie doll that was left in the toaster oven for an hour.

Plus, perfume gets trapped in there and when they are close to you or walk by the smell just makes you pounce em. Nice!
 
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Just did a google search, couldn't find any attractive ones. Agreed, bad news all around. Any girl that cuts her hair short has got to have some type of lesbian tendencies going on. Either that or they're just fvcked up in the head.
 
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A hair style looking good depends on the person sporting it. From their attitude, to their facial appearance, to their head shape, to their clothing style. It really depends.

I think short hair can look cute, sexy, and hot on the right girl. And I think it can look odd on a different girl. Kinda like me and my dreads. Though I know plenty of girls who will say they like a guy with shorter hair, my hair being almost chin length has down nothing but help get me more attention from women.

Hair length and whether its masculine or feminine depends on the culture. And if you think about it, even in nature there are different animals where the male is the one sporting bigger and/or better looking hair or feathers.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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