"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who thinks short hair makes a girl less attractive?

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HB8 with long hair but when she cuts it short she falls to a 6.

Who thinks short hair makes girls not as attractive ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I do. Short hair is a turn off for me even if her face is pretty.
 
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Is she attractive? Are you banging her?
If not, why does it matter?

This type of sh!t makes the general discussion repulsive. Who the FVCK cares?

I'll be doing a thread tomorrow for the newcommers on this site, I am absolutely sick of these threads asking for advice, EVEN THOUGH PEOPLE WITH FVCKING D!CKS HAVEN'T ASKED FOR A DATE.

What more experience members SHOULD do is post the link to the DJ Bible and LEAVE it AS IS. No response, no replies. Just post it. No need to further analyze the situation because 90% of people will already have agreed with you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BeginningDJ said:
Is she attractive? Are you banging her?
If not, why does it matter?

This type of sh!t makes the general discussion repulsive. Who the FVCK cares?

I'll be doing a thread tomorrow for the newcommers on this site, I am absolutely sick of these threads asking for advice, EVEN THOUGH PEOPLE WITH FVCKING D!CKS HAVEN'T ASKED FOR A DATE.

What more experience members SHOULD do is post the link to the DJ Bible and LEAVE it AS IS. No response, no replies. Just post it. No need to further analyze the situation because 90% of people will already have agreed with you.
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Please post this already. I'm dead excited. Can't wait for this man. Hurry up. And I'm not sarcarsming.
 
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Very few women can pull it off. And then again, it depends HOW short.

But to quote Maya Angelou... "A woman's hair is her glory".
So that glory better be long and ready to be pulled.

It needs to be longer than shoulder length for me.
 
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Total turn-off for me. I see it as turning her back on her femininity. Often it has to do with the fact that it's easier to take care of. Every once in a while I'll come across one who looks good with short hair, but I can't get past the statement it makes.

I'm on a certain online dating site (composed entirely of crazies, of course) and lots of women with the most disgusting short hair contact me. As soon as I see short hair I lose interest.
 
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It takes a certain girl to be able to pull off the short hairstyle.

When they can't, they look like they enjoy licking the fish taco every night.

When they CAN, they are fvcking GORGEOUS.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah girls that can pull off short hair are a rarity. Even the ones that do I'd probably still prefer them with long hair.
 
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Total turn off, does nothing for me. Hair is an extension of their femininity, sexiness and health. And I mean nice, shiny, well taken care of hair, not like a frizzy ass Barbie doll that was left in the toaster oven for an hour.

Plus, perfume gets trapped in there and when they are close to you or walk by the smell just makes you pounce em. Nice!
 
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Just did a google search, couldn't find any attractive ones. Agreed, bad news all around. Any girl that cuts her hair short has got to have some type of lesbian tendencies going on. Either that or they're just fvcked up in the head.
 
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A hair style looking good depends on the person sporting it. From their attitude, to their facial appearance, to their head shape, to their clothing style. It really depends.

I think short hair can look cute, sexy, and hot on the right girl. And I think it can look odd on a different girl. Kinda like me and my dreads. Though I know plenty of girls who will say they like a guy with shorter hair, my hair being almost chin length has down nothing but help get me more attention from women.

Hair length and whether its masculine or feminine depends on the culture. And if you think about it, even in nature there are different animals where the male is the one sporting bigger and/or better looking hair or feathers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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