"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who should really pay while dating (video)

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JonnyD123

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Pretty insightful, it's funny listening to the female reactions.

My favorite part he says: "who pays?"
They say: "THE MAN!"
He says: "then sex"
They say: "NOOOOOO!!!!"

Haha, gets me every time. Worth a watch.

 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not a bad way of explaining.

I've always said "A woman should always offer, a man should always pay." especially at the start of dating, but after a while if a girl wants to hang out and do something particular, then to me its for her to take me out and thus the onus is on her to pay.
 
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Whats the thought of the DJ commmunity about this matter? I tend to agree with the video posted before, meaning you shouldnt be paying for her time although of course if its some special occasion then it makes more sense for the man to pay.
 
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