"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who should really pay while dating (video)

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Pretty insightful, it's funny listening to the female reactions.

My favorite part he says: "who pays?"
They say: "THE MAN!"
He says: "then sex"
They say: "NOOOOOO!!!!"

Haha, gets me every time. Worth a watch.

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not a bad way of explaining.

I've always said "A woman should always offer, a man should always pay." especially at the start of dating, but after a while if a girl wants to hang out and do something particular, then to me its for her to take me out and thus the onus is on her to pay.
 
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Whats the thought of the DJ commmunity about this matter? I tend to agree with the video posted before, meaning you shouldnt be paying for her time although of course if its some special occasion then it makes more sense for the man to pay.
 
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