"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Who should really pay while dating (video)

JonnyD123

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Pretty insightful, it's funny listening to the female reactions.

My favorite part he says: "who pays?"
They say: "THE MAN!"
He says: "then sex"
They say: "NOOOOOO!!!!"

Haha, gets me every time. Worth a watch.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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old_skoolr

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Not a bad way of explaining.

I've always said "A woman should always offer, a man should always pay." especially at the start of dating, but after a while if a girl wants to hang out and do something particular, then to me its for her to take me out and thus the onus is on her to pay.
 

Juanto

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Whats the thought of the DJ commmunity about this matter? I tend to agree with the video posted before, meaning you shouldnt be paying for her time although of course if its some special occasion then it makes more sense for the man to pay.
 
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