"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who should really pay while dating (video)

JonnyD123

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Pretty insightful, it's funny listening to the female reactions.

My favorite part he says: "who pays?"
They say: "THE MAN!"
He says: "then sex"
They say: "NOOOOOO!!!!"

Haha, gets me every time. Worth a watch.

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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old_skoolr

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Not a bad way of explaining.

I've always said "A woman should always offer, a man should always pay." especially at the start of dating, but after a while if a girl wants to hang out and do something particular, then to me its for her to take me out and thus the onus is on her to pay.
 

Juanto

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Whats the thought of the DJ commmunity about this matter? I tend to agree with the video posted before, meaning you shouldnt be paying for her time although of course if its some special occasion then it makes more sense for the man to pay.
 
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