"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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who is the ugliest pua in here?

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david90

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Anyone here who thinks they're ugly but have good sucess with women? Post your pic:p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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David90,

Oh, if you could have only seen the inside of my head when I originally came to this site!

I was so messed up.

I look very similar to the way I look now. However my mindset and style was the exact opposite.

Style is easy to fix, initially you'll get more AIs. However, this is short term. short term is still good. Don't get me wrong. Getting extra AIs through short term things such as style/social proof is great.

But the mindset that says I'm congruent with who I am and everything that I do is the long term thing that will change your life, and your social interaction.

I realise I'm not answering your question david.

But in my opinion. There is no answer.

The ugliest people here are the people who beleive looks are the be all and end all in regaurds to pick up.

I once was one. As soon as I shook that belief - it aint easy. I have become very good looking.

It sounds retarded. Its totally Oprah type ****. But its real.

three12.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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