David90,
Oh, if you could have only seen the inside of my head when I originally came to this site!
I was so messed up.
I look very similar to the way I look now. However my mindset and style was the exact opposite.
Style is easy to fix, initially you'll get more AIs. However, this is short term. short term is still good. Don't get me wrong. Getting extra AIs through short term things such as style/social proof is great.
But the mindset that says I'm congruent with who I am and everything that I do is the long term thing that will change your life, and your social interaction.
I realise I'm not answering your question david.
But in my opinion. There is no answer.
The ugliest people here are the people who beleive looks are the be all and end all in regaurds to pick up.
I once was one. As soon as I shook that belief - it aint easy. I have become very good looking.
It sounds retarded. Its totally Oprah type ****. But its real.
three12.