"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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who is the ugliest pua in here?

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david90

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Anyone here who thinks they're ugly but have good sucess with women? Post your pic:p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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David90,

Oh, if you could have only seen the inside of my head when I originally came to this site!

I was so messed up.

I look very similar to the way I look now. However my mindset and style was the exact opposite.

Style is easy to fix, initially you'll get more AIs. However, this is short term. short term is still good. Don't get me wrong. Getting extra AIs through short term things such as style/social proof is great.

But the mindset that says I'm congruent with who I am and everything that I do is the long term thing that will change your life, and your social interaction.

I realise I'm not answering your question david.

But in my opinion. There is no answer.

The ugliest people here are the people who beleive looks are the be all and end all in regaurds to pick up.

I once was one. As soon as I shook that belief - it aint easy. I have become very good looking.

It sounds retarded. Its totally Oprah type ****. But its real.

three12.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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