"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Who Is A Fat Ugly Basterd Here Who Gets
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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The alternative would be a world where men are judged by looks just as rigorously as women are.
Think your genes are superior enough to pass muster? They're probably not ... just look how high the standard for women is.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
frivolousz21
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im a good loooking guy..but thats right...
because of the nature of the beast I can pull hotter girls...and if I was a women it woudlnt work the same way around!
Spiky
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The point is that with cool style, bodylanguage, a ****y tone of voice, you project a 'good looking' vibe.
Things like cool haircuts, sexual ornamentation (jewllery), nice shoes, a tan make anyone look good.
Put it this way; a fat ugly bytch in a bar will get some horny drunk bastard to hit on her eventually. You have plenty of decent looking guys going home alone because they "don't pass muster"
It always has been, and always will be easier for women to get sex.
Anyway, it still proves my point that men [usually] don't win or lose based on looks the way women do, but do so based on their game, something learned instead of inherited.
Scratch all that: you're talking about those women who play an active role in getting the man involved with her. This actually makes more of a difference than anything else - the mistress manipulator at work, playing on a man's desparation.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Totally right.
I hear this concept of "guys care more about looks than women" over and over again. That's not what I see around here.
In fact, I know tons of ass-ugly women who have satellite guys around them all the time to do WTF they would want, hoping they'll tap the ass. They're ugly and have many options! And the guys aren't even half as ugly as them.
Supplication DOES happen when the guy doesn't have no options, even if he is good-looking. He will supplicate even to a fat ugly girl, if the dry spell becomes a torture, hehe.
You have two options on dealing with it, and I think the best thing is a balance of the two:
1) be the shyt in the looks department, so all the girls want you.
2) have a thick skin and approach many many girls until you have a lot of prospects.
Game equals options. Very good looks equals options. It's all about the demand thing. Economics 101 you know
A girl who has written all over her something like EASY SEX will have some desperate guys gravitating towards her. Now she has options!
So, woman do not lose based only on looks. They can have game too.
EDIT: Gunwitch nailed it perfectly on his Gunwitch method. It's in a section called "Looks vs. Effort". The Gunwitch method is a post by Gunwitch, which is in the DJ bible.