"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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The alternative would be a world where men are judged by looks just as rigorously as women are.
Think your genes are superior enough to pass muster? They're probably not ... just look how high the standard for women is.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
frivolousz21
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im a good loooking guy..but thats right...
because of the nature of the beast I can pull hotter girls...and if I was a women it woudlnt work the same way around!
Spiky
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The point is that with cool style, bodylanguage, a ****y tone of voice, you project a 'good looking' vibe.
Things like cool haircuts, sexual ornamentation (jewllery), nice shoes, a tan make anyone look good.
Put it this way; a fat ugly bytch in a bar will get some horny drunk bastard to hit on her eventually. You have plenty of decent looking guys going home alone because they "don't pass muster"
It always has been, and always will be easier for women to get sex.
Anyway, it still proves my point that men [usually] don't win or lose based on looks the way women do, but do so based on their game, something learned instead of inherited.
Scratch all that: you're talking about those women who play an active role in getting the man involved with her. This actually makes more of a difference than anything else - the mistress manipulator at work, playing on a man's desparation.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Totally right.
I hear this concept of "guys care more about looks than women" over and over again. That's not what I see around here.
In fact, I know tons of ass-ugly women who have satellite guys around them all the time to do WTF they would want, hoping they'll tap the ass. They're ugly and have many options! And the guys aren't even half as ugly as them.
Supplication DOES happen when the guy doesn't have no options, even if he is good-looking. He will supplicate even to a fat ugly girl, if the dry spell becomes a torture, hehe.
You have two options on dealing with it, and I think the best thing is a balance of the two:
1) be the shyt in the looks department, so all the girls want you.
2) have a thick skin and approach many many girls until you have a lot of prospects.
Game equals options. Very good looks equals options. It's all about the demand thing. Economics 101 you know
A girl who has written all over her something like EASY SEX will have some desperate guys gravitating towards her. Now she has options!
So, woman do not lose based only on looks. They can have game too.
EDIT: Gunwitch nailed it perfectly on his Gunwitch method. It's in a section called "Looks vs. Effort". The Gunwitch method is a post by Gunwitch, which is in the DJ bible.