"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who honestly gives a crap?

Bling

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Why do people care so much about what other's think? Last year (Freshman year), I was so self-conscious of what people thought of me. I had to be perfect, and be everything that makes one cool. Sure I made friends, but people just didn't want to hang out with me as much as I wanted to. I had to start conversations with others, and they usually went on to talk to someone else.


This summer, I hooked up with a emo chick. Considering I like rap, and we have many things not in common, I thought the relationship wouldn't last. But I'm finding the real me with her. She taught me not to care what other's think. If someone wants to hang out with me, that's cool. If they don't, I don't care either. All I care about is what my true friends think, and that's it.


I no longer give a flying **** what people think of me, and people are flocking to me like crazy. and those that don't, I could care less.








So save the hassle of caring what others think of you, and focus your life on being a confident DJ you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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08aisaac

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What did I tell you about emo chicks? They are fu<king awesome.

I really don't give a **** what people think about me. But I am so awesome they all like me, and like talking to me. But I suggest we all hook up with emo girls.

Oh and I like rap and 80's rock, especially pink floyd, but I also love emo, and am pretty emo myself.
 

Thraxeh

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having things in common sucks. its boring.

its fine to have a few things, but if u like the same things then its going to get tedious.

for instance, u said u like rap, and she likes punk/rock( i guess), u can have arguements, friendly ones, they are alot more interesting then convos where u agree with each other.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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