"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who honestly gives a crap?

Bling

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Why do people care so much about what other's think? Last year (Freshman year), I was so self-conscious of what people thought of me. I had to be perfect, and be everything that makes one cool. Sure I made friends, but people just didn't want to hang out with me as much as I wanted to. I had to start conversations with others, and they usually went on to talk to someone else.


This summer, I hooked up with a emo chick. Considering I like rap, and we have many things not in common, I thought the relationship wouldn't last. But I'm finding the real me with her. She taught me not to care what other's think. If someone wants to hang out with me, that's cool. If they don't, I don't care either. All I care about is what my true friends think, and that's it.


I no longer give a flying **** what people think of me, and people are flocking to me like crazy. and those that don't, I could care less.








So save the hassle of caring what others think of you, and focus your life on being a confident DJ you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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08aisaac

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What did I tell you about emo chicks? They are fu<king awesome.

I really don't give a **** what people think about me. But I am so awesome they all like me, and like talking to me. But I suggest we all hook up with emo girls.

Oh and I like rap and 80's rock, especially pink floyd, but I also love emo, and am pretty emo myself.
 

Thraxeh

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having things in common sucks. its boring.

its fine to have a few things, but if u like the same things then its going to get tedious.

for instance, u said u like rap, and she likes punk/rock( i guess), u can have arguements, friendly ones, they are alot more interesting then convos where u agree with each other.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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