"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Who honestly gives a crap?

Bling

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Why do people care so much about what other's think? Last year (Freshman year), I was so self-conscious of what people thought of me. I had to be perfect, and be everything that makes one cool. Sure I made friends, but people just didn't want to hang out with me as much as I wanted to. I had to start conversations with others, and they usually went on to talk to someone else.


This summer, I hooked up with a emo chick. Considering I like rap, and we have many things not in common, I thought the relationship wouldn't last. But I'm finding the real me with her. She taught me not to care what other's think. If someone wants to hang out with me, that's cool. If they don't, I don't care either. All I care about is what my true friends think, and that's it.


I no longer give a flying **** what people think of me, and people are flocking to me like crazy. and those that don't, I could care less.








So save the hassle of caring what others think of you, and focus your life on being a confident DJ you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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08aisaac

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What did I tell you about emo chicks? They are fu<king awesome.

I really don't give a **** what people think about me. But I am so awesome they all like me, and like talking to me. But I suggest we all hook up with emo girls.

Oh and I like rap and 80's rock, especially pink floyd, but I also love emo, and am pretty emo myself.
 

Thraxeh

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having things in common sucks. its boring.

its fine to have a few things, but if u like the same things then its going to get tedious.

for instance, u said u like rap, and she likes punk/rock( i guess), u can have arguements, friendly ones, they are alot more interesting then convos where u agree with each other.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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