Korrupt
Banned
I'm not saying you don't care about strength, everyone likes to be strong, I'm saying you rather look like you can bench 700 lbs versus actually being able to bench 700 lbs.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This is truth.CaptainJ said:I've yet to see a powerlifter who doesn't look like he could be a bodybuilder if he cut into the single figure bf%
It's quite irrelevant really, as to have muscles, you must be strong, and to be strong, you must have muscles. The only real difference between powerlifters and bodybuilders is how they present their hard work.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Oh, I'm sorry, is this forum called: POWERLIFTING? Let's see... NOPE. It's called HEALTH & FITNESS. I think I'm allowed to like bodybuilding more than powerlifting, even if 90% of the posters on this board are (obviously) more into just being strong fat f*cks than being shredded.azanon said:Don't know ya Korrupt, but that was a troll post. I wasn't surprised to see that you're a "red-dotter".
lol'dKorrupt said:Oh, and judging a user by REP is laughable. Rescue Mission has 4 green rep bars and... Well.... He's Rescue Mission.