Korrupt
Banned
I'm not saying you don't care about strength, everyone likes to be strong, I'm saying you rather look like you can bench 700 lbs versus actually being able to bench 700 lbs.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
This is truth.CaptainJ said:I've yet to see a powerlifter who doesn't look like he could be a bodybuilder if he cut into the single figure bf%
It's quite irrelevant really, as to have muscles, you must be strong, and to be strong, you must have muscles. The only real difference between powerlifters and bodybuilders is how they present their hard work.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh, I'm sorry, is this forum called: POWERLIFTING? Let's see... NOPE. It's called HEALTH & FITNESS. I think I'm allowed to like bodybuilding more than powerlifting, even if 90% of the posters on this board are (obviously) more into just being strong fat f*cks than being shredded.azanon said:Don't know ya Korrupt, but that was a troll post. I wasn't surprised to see that you're a "red-dotter".
lol'dKorrupt said:Oh, and judging a user by REP is laughable. Rescue Mission has 4 green rep bars and... Well.... He's Rescue Mission.