Korrupt
Banned
I'm not saying you don't care about strength, everyone likes to be strong, I'm saying you rather look like you can bench 700 lbs versus actually being able to bench 700 lbs.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is truth.CaptainJ said:I've yet to see a powerlifter who doesn't look like he could be a bodybuilder if he cut into the single figure bf%
It's quite irrelevant really, as to have muscles, you must be strong, and to be strong, you must have muscles. The only real difference between powerlifters and bodybuilders is how they present their hard work.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Oh, I'm sorry, is this forum called: POWERLIFTING? Let's see... NOPE. It's called HEALTH & FITNESS. I think I'm allowed to like bodybuilding more than powerlifting, even if 90% of the posters on this board are (obviously) more into just being strong fat f*cks than being shredded.azanon said:Don't know ya Korrupt, but that was a troll post. I wasn't surprised to see that you're a "red-dotter".
lol'dKorrupt said:Oh, and judging a user by REP is laughable. Rescue Mission has 4 green rep bars and... Well.... He's Rescue Mission.