"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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who here holds sex back to get his way?

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I am cautious with bodily fluids when I really want a relationship.... So I kinda just turn them on for a long time withholding sex.
And they usually eat it up and equates to free movies, meals. Generally just a nicer dating experience for me.

I am a sexy guy in my humble opinion...arm candy I guess. I am a lover type.. #NotMMAsexy

So I don't rush sex.
Anyone else have success witholding?
And I mean like do you get stuff bought for you etc
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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_sideways_ said:
I am cautious with bodily fluids when I really want a relationship.... So I kinda just turn them on for a long time withholding sex.
And they usually eat it up and equates to free movies, meals. Generally just a nicer dating experience for me.

I am a sexy guy in my humble opinion...arm candy I guess. I am a lover type.. #NotMMAsexy

So I don't rush sex.
Anyone else have success witholding?
And I mean like do you get stuff bought for you etc
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If your attractive enough you can pull this off as a man. It won't work with all men.
 
Desdinova

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Yes, I withhold sex. I usually don't fvck women until the 4th date (used to be the 3rd, but having hsv-2 changed that). The longer I make them wait in the beginning, the more they want it.

Sometimes I just withhold it because I'm not in the mood to fvck. The GF wants it a lot and occasionally I will turn her down. It's not really out of the desire to increase her desire, it's because I'm genuinely tired or I don't feel like it. Increasing her desire is now just a side effect.
 
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