"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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who here holds sex back to get his way?

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I am cautious with bodily fluids when I really want a relationship.... So I kinda just turn them on for a long time withholding sex.
And they usually eat it up and equates to free movies, meals. Generally just a nicer dating experience for me.

I am a sexy guy in my humble opinion...arm candy I guess. I am a lover type.. #NotMMAsexy

So I don't rush sex.
Anyone else have success witholding?
And I mean like do you get stuff bought for you etc
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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_sideways_ said:
I am cautious with bodily fluids when I really want a relationship.... So I kinda just turn them on for a long time withholding sex.
And they usually eat it up and equates to free movies, meals. Generally just a nicer dating experience for me.

I am a sexy guy in my humble opinion...arm candy I guess. I am a lover type.. #NotMMAsexy

So I don't rush sex.
Anyone else have success witholding?
And I mean like do you get stuff bought for you etc
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If your attractive enough you can pull this off as a man. It won't work with all men.
 
Desdinova

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Yes, I withhold sex. I usually don't fvck women until the 4th date (used to be the 3rd, but having hsv-2 changed that). The longer I make them wait in the beginning, the more they want it.

Sometimes I just withhold it because I'm not in the mood to fvck. The GF wants it a lot and occasionally I will turn her down. It's not really out of the desire to increase her desire, it's because I'm genuinely tired or I don't feel like it. Increasing her desire is now just a side effect.
 
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