“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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who here holds sex back to get his way?

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I am cautious with bodily fluids when I really want a relationship.... So I kinda just turn them on for a long time withholding sex.
And they usually eat it up and equates to free movies, meals. Generally just a nicer dating experience for me.

I am a sexy guy in my humble opinion...arm candy I guess. I am a lover type.. #NotMMAsexy

So I don't rush sex.
Anyone else have success witholding?
And I mean like do you get stuff bought for you etc
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I am cautious with bodily fluids when I really want a relationship.... So I kinda just turn them on for a long time withholding sex.
And they usually eat it up and equates to free movies, meals. Generally just a nicer dating experience for me.

I am a sexy guy in my humble opinion...arm candy I guess. I am a lover type.. #NotMMAsexy

So I don't rush sex.
Anyone else have success witholding?
And I mean like do you get stuff bought for you etc
If your attractive enough you can pull this off as a man. It won't work with all men.
 

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Yes, I withhold sex. I usually don't fvck women until the 4th date (used to be the 3rd, but having hsv-2 changed that). The longer I make them wait in the beginning, the more they want it.

Sometimes I just withhold it because I'm not in the mood to fvck. The GF wants it a lot and occasionally I will turn her down. It's not really out of the desire to increase her desire, it's because I'm genuinely tired or I don't feel like it. Increasing her desire is now just a side effect.
 
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