"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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who here holds sex back to get his way?

_sideways_

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I am cautious with bodily fluids when I really want a relationship.... So I kinda just turn them on for a long time withholding sex.
And they usually eat it up and equates to free movies, meals. Generally just a nicer dating experience for me.

I am a sexy guy in my humble opinion...arm candy I guess. I am a lover type.. #NotMMAsexy

So I don't rush sex.
Anyone else have success witholding?
And I mean like do you get stuff bought for you etc
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mrgoodstuff

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I am cautious with bodily fluids when I really want a relationship.... So I kinda just turn them on for a long time withholding sex.
And they usually eat it up and equates to free movies, meals. Generally just a nicer dating experience for me.

I am a sexy guy in my humble opinion...arm candy I guess. I am a lover type.. #NotMMAsexy

So I don't rush sex.
Anyone else have success witholding?
And I mean like do you get stuff bought for you etc
If your attractive enough you can pull this off as a man. It won't work with all men.
 

Desdinova

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Yes, I withhold sex. I usually don't fvck women until the 4th date (used to be the 3rd, but having hsv-2 changed that). The longer I make them wait in the beginning, the more they want it.

Sometimes I just withhold it because I'm not in the mood to fvck. The GF wants it a lot and occasionally I will turn her down. It's not really out of the desire to increase her desire, it's because I'm genuinely tired or I don't feel like it. Increasing her desire is now just a side effect.
 
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