"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Who got some 'strange' last night?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Im referring to strange pvssy. Pvssy you've never hit before. It was NYE last night, and I want some FR's.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
**** man , everything was spinning around me , my two wings were holding me and i puked maybe 3 timesIt's-Me said:
. In the bar that i was , there were 2 girls that i knew , im 100% sure i could pull them home. Also , the bar was pretty crowded , and there were a lot of other girls. When i went there , after maybe 30 minutes , things started spinning and i started to feel bad. I sat on the corner with my eyes closed . I could have had a great night. Instead , i puked 3 times , went home , felt asleep and woke up with terrible headache. I will never get that drunk again . NEVER EVER.I know that feeling.Daddy The Pimp said:**** man , everything was spinning around me , my two wings were holding me and i puked maybe 3 times
It was a lot worse for me though. Once when I get home, my head start spinning like crazy and I pucked about 10 times. Than, I finally feel asleep and I woke up with a massive headache and continued pucking in the morning. I was on the couch for the whole day almost.
It's just one of those things that you have to experience to understand.
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I'll get her though.
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reading stories like this gives me mixed feelings
dunno whether to feel inspired or gutted for myself
crazymedstudent
Don Juan
last night was strange because one of my best friends (HB 8.5) made a drunken stupor move on me. A couple months back I thought she was hot but after we hung out a couple times I was digging her as a good friend but she just wasn't my type.
Anyways, she's definitely been my best friend for the past couple of months which is awesome cause she's introduced me to a bunch of her friends, who I've actually liked and hooked up with. She knows I'm really into one of her friends. She also has crazy good wing woman game.
So after the stroke of midnight, all of our friends were huggin and kissing each other. She was nowhere to be found. I figured she'd found herself a piece of ass for herself and thought nothing of it. When she found me later she said, "take me downstairs and give me a kiss." I was honestly shocked because I had turned off my sexual vibe to this girl. We ended up making out all night and she stayed the night at my place but as we were hooking up I didn't think it was right to hookup. While we were hooking up I told her it was wrong we were hooking up and that she's my best friend. She simply responded back to me "you don't like me?" and "I can see myself having a family with you." I was thinking jeez RELAXXXXXXXX. I didn't want things to be weird with her so I didn't have sex with her.
Anyways, I really want things to go back to the status quo i.e. her has my best friend and nothing more but I'm afraid we've crossed the line.
Any thoughts?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
didn't get to the bar till 11:30 cuz i passed out from 5-10 after work yesturday... got to one of the only free bars around here (most were charging at least $20 to get in), and bam... there she was (her bodies a 10, but her face is only about a 6)... she was drunk and with her female friends; she was excited to be able to hang all over a guy in front of them... so danced with her... kissed her at midnight... 20 minutes later... in her car (mine isn't tinted)... couldn't bust, she got one and then she kept telling me to bust (DEMANDING IT!).. but told her i can bust a lot easier in a bed; don't normally get off in cars... blzhzay blah she keeps demanding it (i'm annoyed now)... i'm using a condom... so i just fake it... she's pleased... i'm not... but i guess that qualifies...
It's-Me said:
i get hammered in mid december got home pretty wasted and just fall sleep. then i wake up in the middle of the night only to throw up twice (from my bed to the floor ) and i fall back to sleep . next day i look at the floor and pairs of sneakers are all covered in puke. luckily that was the only thing in the floor..
... but i promise myself this is the last time i would get wasted to that point..
i drank in dec 30 and did not get wasted the 31 i was not feeling like drinking at all.
the only bad thing is that i have broke that promise 3 times now